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Mother
Elloise Hankins
MY
MOTHER IS A VIRTUOUS WOMAN AND I THANK GOD
OF THE BIBLE.
WELL
THE BIBLE IS ALWAYS RIGHT AND I KNOW THE RIGHT
WOMAN
MENTIONED IN PROVERBS 31:10-31!
Prov.
31:10, "Who can find a VIRTUOUS woman?" Alcindor
says, I can, my mother of 14 children. Prov.
31:11, "The heart of her husband doth
safely trust in her, so that he shall have
no need of
spoil". Mom took care of my father well.
She honored him and knew her place as a wife
and mother.
Prov.
31:12, "She will do him good and not evil
all the days of her life." Mom has never
said anything bad about our dad to her children.
That is why we respected him and have much
respect for her today. Prov. 31:13,"She seeketh
wool and flax and worketh willingly with her
hands." Mom made most of what we wore
back in the day. Made herself many dresses
and skirts!
Prov.
31:14,"....she bringeth her food from
afar".
We had many gardens of corn, beans and all
kinds of veggies that mom had us to fill 2
big freezers
for the winter. We purchased very little food
from the store. We killed hogs, cows and a
host of chickens each day. We knew the meat
(chicken),
but wanted to know the veggies. Prov. 31:15,"She
riseth also while it is yet night and giveth
meat to her household". Mom was last to
go to bed and first up cooking, cleaning and
a super woman. Never heard her complain! Prov.
31:17, "She girdeth her lions with strength..." Full
of energy early in the mornings before the
chickens got up! God gave her what she needed
to be what
we needed. Thanks so much mom! Prov. 31:26,"She
openeth her mouth with wisdom: and her tongue
is the law of kindness." Mom taught her
children by actions, "if we can not say
anything good, say nothing at all". Also,
a person
will NOT fuss long by themselves. I learn from
mom to be myself and live within my
means. Not to impress others by going in debt!
Mom has never been on a vacation. She has had
doors open for her thru Avon, but so content
outside in her yard watering her flowers. You
can see her outside early in the mornings,
walking with her sisters, Senora, Coretha,
Ollie, Ruby
and others, and then feeding her chickens.
Yes in 2006, mom has chickens...lol! You go
momma!
My brother Wade had her a chicken house built
with a remote control door.
Mom
enjoys the simple things that God has provided
for us all. Do we know how blessed we are?
Prov. 31:28,"Her children arise up, and
call her blessed...." She is blessed in
so many ways by her children. Has want for nothing!
Her children
does something different for her all the time.
We all deliver Avon....LOL! Prov. 31:31,"Give
her of the fruit of her hand: and let her own
works praise her in the gates". NEW CENTURY
VERSION says it this way,"Give her the
reward she has earned: she should be praised
in public
for what she has done". In Feb. 2006 at
a Black History Program in Leland, NC at St.
James AME Zion Church, I honored my mom in
9 ways. I had mom to stand with me in front
of
the church. I told the people,"I was in
the 9th grade when my dad passed in 1984. Mom
carried me for 9 months, I am her 9th child
and I want to honor her with 9 suits. I had
several
women to walk in with 9 suits for my mom. I
do not wait for Christmas, her birthday or/and
Mother's
Day to bless my mom the VIRTUOUS woman, mother
and my friend. I love you mother with your
blessed self...Alcindor!
For
years mom went without some things so that her children
could have. She made herself many
dresses and shirts back in the day. I love to dress
her up and down today.
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